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Telling a white lie that makes his coworkers believe he has a loving family at home, a lonely man stuck in a thankless public-health job falls in love with a new coworker who challenges his secrets. Telling a white lie that makes his coworkers believe he has a loving family at home, a lonely man stuck in a thankless public health job falls in love with a new coworker who challenges his secrets.

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